tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33989532024-03-06T19:59:47.079-08:00BloggopottimusA large, chiefly aquatic American herbivorous blog having thick, dark, almost hairless skin, short legs with four toes, and a broad, wide-mouthed muzzle. Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.comBlogger218125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-13678229089664651882023-04-15T08:15:00.004-07:002023-04-15T08:15:48.140-07:00Review: Shop Class as Soulcraft: An Inquiry into the Value of Work, by Mathew Crawford<p> <a href="<a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6493332-shop-class-as-soulcraft" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px"><img border="0" alt="Shop Class as Soulcraft: An Inquiry into the Value of Work" src="https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1328317490l/6493332._SX98_.jpg" /></a><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6493332-shop-class-as-soulcraft">Shop Class as Soulcraft: An Inquiry into the Value of Work</a> by <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/2847553.Matthew_B_Crawford">Matthew B. Crawford</a><br/> My rating: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/5487324417">5 of 5 stars</a><br /><br /> A lot of great insights about the nature and value of different types of work. Some of my favorite quotes:<br /><blockquote>Our ability to make good judgments is holistic in character, and arises from repeated confrontations with real things: comprehensive entities that are grasped all at once, in a manner that may be incapable of explicit articulation.</blockquote><br /><br /><blockquote>[Talking about viewing reality as primarily what is your perception as opposed to what is physically in front of you:] This stance toward “established reality,” which can only be called psychedelic, is best not indulged around a table saw.</blockquote><br /><br /><blockquote>[On the need to increase consumption in order to motivate people doing piece work in their homes to become factory employees:] Contradicting the assumptions of “rational behavior,” it was found that when employers would increase the piece rate in order to boost production, it actually had the opposite effect: workers would produce less, as now they could meet their fixed needs with less work. Eventually it was learned that the only way to get them to work harder was to play upon the imagination, stimulating new needs and wants. Consumption, no less than production, needed to be brought under scientific management—the management of desire. Thus, there came to be marketers who called themselves “consumption engineers” in the early decades of the twentieth century. They were armed with the latest findings of experimental psychology.</blockquote><br /><br /><blockquote>There may be something to be said, then, for having gifted students learn a trade, if only in the summers, so that their egos will be repeatedly crushed before they go on to run the country.</blockquote><br /><br /> <br/><br/> <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1158731-mark">Shop Class as Soulcraft: An Inquiry into the Value of Work</a> </p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/5487324417">My rating: 5 of 5 stars</a></p><p><br /></p>Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-10532864308939131102022-10-25T08:43:00.001-07:002022-10-25T08:43:48.445-07:00Review: The Devil's Advocate
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<a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/248761">The Devil's Advocate</a> by <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/33384">Taylor Caldwell</a><br/>
My rating: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/5066179734">2 of 5 stars</a>
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Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-23744416764232187122022-10-25T08:11:00.001-07:002022-10-25T08:11:38.807-07:00Review: Things Worth Dying For: Thoughts on a Life Worth Living
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<a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/53138062">Things Worth Dying For: Thoughts on a Life Worth Living</a> by <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/172293">Charles J. Chaput</a><br/>
My rating: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/5066176587">4 of 5 stars</a>
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Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-91019305149648878352022-08-18T05:30:00.001-07:002022-08-18T05:30:56.183-07:00Review: Into Your Hands, Father: Abandoning Ourselves to the God Who Loves Us
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<a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11075923">Into Your Hands, Father: Abandoning Ourselves to the God Who Loves Us</a> by <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/822458">Wilfrid Stinissen</a><br/>
My rating: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/4927646462">5 of 5 stars</a>
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Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-66113914801186071472022-07-27T11:47:00.001-07:002022-07-27T11:47:31.725-07:00Review: Ben-Hur: A Tale of the Christ
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<a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13341397">Ben-Hur: A Tale of the Christ</a> by <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/16104262">Lew Wallace</a><br/>
My rating: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/4877262378">5 of 5 stars</a>
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Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-37969908162354432922020-04-02T06:39:00.001-07:002020-04-02T06:39:46.422-07:00Review: Remote: Office Not Required
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<a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18802222">Remote: Office Not Required</a> by <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/60619">Jason Fried</a><br/>
My rating: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/3229466828">4 of 5 stars</a>
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Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-30460665201475115132020-03-29T15:22:00.001-07:002020-03-29T15:22:03.799-07:00Review: From Fire, by Water: My Journey to the Catholic Faith
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<a href="https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/41722461">From Fire, by Water: My Journey to the Catholic Faith</a> by <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/5766398">Sohrab Ahmari</a><br/>
My rating: <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/3253078793">5 of 5 stars</a>
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Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-69008724508674841702015-10-08T09:51:00.001-07:002015-10-08T09:51:34.840-07:00Review: A Universe from Nothing: Why There Is Something Rather Than Nothing
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<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/11337189">A Universe from Nothing: Why There Is Something Rather Than Nothing</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1410">Lawrence M. Krauss</a><br/>
My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1411665842">2 of 5 stars</a>
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Summary: Fascinating science, disturbingly poor philosophy<br /><br />I learned a lot about current thinking in cosmology from Krauss. He does a fine job of presenting theories of how the Universe began and unfolded.<br /><br />Sadly, his claim that the book will address the issue of "Why is there something rather than nothing?" from a scientific point of view is complete bait-and-switch. He doesn't address it, and he claims it is not worth addressing. Then he provides a different claim which he says is the better to ask anyway.<br /><br />My response to his non-scientific thought (presented as scientific because he's a scientist and what he thinks must be scientific) is: A sneer is not an argument. Simply showing contempt for those who disagree with you is not the same as refuting what they say.<br />
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Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-44721723545299083902015-03-28T07:45:00.001-07:002015-03-28T07:45:54.088-07:00Review: Kidnapped<br /> <a style='float: left; padding-right: 20px' href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/10864647'><img alt='Kidnapped' border='0' src='http://d.gr-assets.com/books/1348024136m/10864647.jpg'/></a><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/10864647'>Kidnapped</a> by <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/854076'>Robert Louis Stevenson</a><br/><br /> My rating: <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1239246337'>4 of 5 stars</a><br /> <br/><br/><br /> I read this books to my boys, ages 11 and 13, for a book club discussion with some other boys.<br /><br />This is an adventure story which explores ideas of loyalty and friendship, and how different loyalties might conflict. I strongly recommend it.<br /><br />However, I do also strongly recommend that you don't just pick it up and read. The book has a lot of Scottish-English dialogue, and it also assumes a familiarity with the conflicts between the Jacobites and the British in Scotland in the mid-1700's. Late into the book I picked up a SparkNotes summary and read through the couple pages of explanation of the history and context. It really helped me to understand it, and I found my enjoyment of the book grew tremendously.<br /><br />So, read the book, but spend a few minutes studying the context first. You'll be glad you did.<br /> <br/><br/><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1239246337'>View all my reviews</a><br /> Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-50971713059526602822014-08-05T18:51:00.001-07:002014-08-05T18:51:26.810-07:00Review: The Donkey Dialogues<br /> <a style='float: left; padding-right: 20px' href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/22823966'><img alt='The Donkey Dialogues' border='0' src='http://d.gr-assets.com/books/1406486690m/22823966.jpg'/></a><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/22823966'>The Donkey Dialogues</a> by <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/300162'>Michael D. O'Brien</a><br/><br /> My rating: <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1018056259'>4 of 5 stars</a><br /> <br/><br/><br /> I have a tremendous respect and admiration for Michael O'Brien, and this book has raised it to new levels.<br /><br />This book is a series of letters between Michael O'Brien and Mate Krajina. They were written between May 2012 and February 2014. In them, the two men discuss their lives as writers and fathers. Both have known, and continue to know, hardship and want. Both have a deep desire to live as faithful Catholics, sharing the love of Christ with their families, friends, and readers.<br /><br />If there is a modern writer who is the antithesis of a "prosperity Gospel" preacher, it is Michael O'Brien. His books are filled with characters who suffer terribly, but in their suffering they find they are not suffering alone, and they are not suffering without purpose. They find Jesus, and they find happiness and love, even as they continue to suffer. His novels are so powerful because they illustrate and make visible the Christian understanding of suffering. This understanding is almost impossible to grasp simply through the intellect, but it can be seen and felt through the portraits painted with words in his novels.<br /><br />In the <i>Donkey Dialogues</i> we get a glimpse into the lives and the minds of two men who especially appreciate the danger modern Western culture poses to our souls. Mate Krajina faced persecution under Communism, and sees that mass-produced cults of pleasure-seeking and consumerism might do to the Church what direct persecution could not accomplish.<br /><br />Both men understand what I believe to be the true state of the world: We are at war. It is not a war with a nation or a people, but a spiritual war with the devil. He wishes us to move far from God, rebel against Him, and turn in on ourselves. It matters not to the evil one if we do that through laziness, pleasure, sloth, and addiction to trivialities (the modern Western problem), or through direct persecution meant to intimidate and kill (the Communist and Islamist approach).<br /><br />This book was very inspiring to me as a father. It renewed my desire to build up and defend my family, to make sure each of my children knows he or she is loved by God and will find his or her ultimate happiness in loving and serving Him.<br /><br />Some favorite quotes:<br /><br />[O'Brien] "In the post-Communist era, there are fewer dangers to the body but more perils for the soul."<br /><br />[Krajina, describing how they got to calling themselves "donkeys", especially as it relates to protecting their families] "I was using a parable of a donkey, the shepherds loading on him everything they need for a long stay in the mountains, telling you about its 'defensive' role in the sheep pack. Namely, he is there so that the wolves may attack him first because it is the unwritten law of nature that wolves attack donkeys first, and only then the sheep."<br /><br />[O'Brien] "...I see a gift in every opportunity to overcome fear."<br /><br />[O'Brien] "Always, it is the path of selflessness. If a father/husband wishes to give life to his wife and children, he must die to what is selfish within himself."<br /><br />[Krajina] "The wife's smile has a truly therapeutic effect. It becomes easier to find a seed of hope in one's own heart and bring joy."<br /><br />[O'Brien] "In his encyclical on the family, _Familiaris Consortio_, Pope John Paul II emphasized to parents...that we should raise our families from the beginning with a simplicity, a slower pace, a gentler and more human way of life. ... I must underline also that to resist the spirit of the world, we should always do it with love and good humour."<br /> <br/><br/><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1018056259'>View all my reviews</a><br /> Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-70933910092520549352014-02-19T19:44:00.001-08:002014-02-19T19:44:26.568-08:00Review: Voyage to Alpha Centauri<br /> <a style='float: left; padding-right: 20px' href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18234093'><img alt='Voyage to Alpha Centauri' border='0' src='http://d202m5krfqbpi5.cloudfront.net/books/1388196028m/18234093.jpg'/></a><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18234093'>Voyage to Alpha Centauri</a> by <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/300162'>Michael D. O'Brien</a><br/><br /> My rating: <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/827469157'>4 of 5 stars</a><br /> <br/><br/><br /> I thoroughly enjoyed this book. As with most of Michael O'Brien's novels, it takes a little time to get going. But once it did, the story was extremely compelling.<br /><br />Also, as with all of Michael O'Brien's novels, it is just overflowing with insight into human nature and our relationship with God.<br /><br />The story took several unexpected and very interesting turns. Just when I thought I had it figured out, it would twist in a different direction.<br /> <br/><br/><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/827469157'>View all my reviews</a><br /> Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-14535853290966812012013-12-28T08:41:00.001-08:002013-12-28T08:41:54.140-08:00Review: Catholic Guide to Depression<br /> <a style='float: left; padding-right: 20px' href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/16238554'><img alt='Catholic Guide to Depression' border='0' src='http://d202m5krfqbpi5.cloudfront.net/books/1355189939m/16238554.jpg'/></a><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/16238554'>Catholic Guide to Depression</a> by <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/6617814'>Aaron Kheriaty</a><br/><br /> My rating: <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/766467803'>5 of 5 stars</a><br /> <br/><br/><br /> If you or a loved one suffer from depression, anxiety or related disorders, then you need to read this book.<br /><br />Although the title sounds like it could be something from The Onion, it really is apropos. This is a truly Catholic guide to depression. Aaron Kheriaty has done a masterful job of bringing together rigorous science and lively orthodoxy to explain how the *whole* person needs to be treated. John Paul II talked of how faith and reason, when both are rightly understood, never stand in conflict. This book is a wonderful example of truth that flies on "both wings" of faith and reason.<br /><br />Since humans are both material and spiritual, it is important for doctors and therapists to consider the entire person in treatment. Depression is a complex and often elusive condition that can have physical, emotional, and spiritual causes. These causes can be interrelated and can contribute to each other. Treatment of depression, therefore, must deal with all of these facets of the human person. I wish I could find the exact quote, but he summarized this thought roughly like this: The Sacrament of Confession doesn't cure brain chemistry imbalance, and the analyst's couch cannot forgive sin.<br /><br />The book consists of two main parts. The first is a thorough overview of depression itself. It is insightful and deeply sympathetic, written by someone who has obviously worked with many people over many years. The second part is "Overcoming Depression", dealing with medication, psychotherapy, and spiritual help for depression. <br /><br />I found his discussion (starting on pg. 192) of the role of work (ordinary, daily work) in the recovery from depression as particularly insightful. It is a great meditation on the meaning and purpose of work, and it has inspired me to take a new look at how I view my job and family life.<br /><br />This book is both accessible and inspiring. It will give you insight into depression, and tools to help yourself or others who struggle with depression.<br /> <br/><br/><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/766467803'>View all my reviews</a><br /> Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-4206425649062725402013-08-30T19:00:00.000-07:002013-08-30T19:00:00.473-07:00C# keyword: dynamic Here's the latest C# feature I've come across: <a href="http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/dd264736.aspx">The <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">dynamic </span>keyword</a>. I needed to call a generic function but wanted to pass it an object of anonymous type, and dynamic came to the rescue. This is really cool.Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-10581998829564658222013-08-28T20:00:00.000-07:002013-08-28T20:00:01.430-07:00Another cool C# language feature: yield returnI just came across <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">yield return</span> in some C# code. I didn't know about <a href="http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/vstudio/9k7k7cf0.aspx">this feature</a>. If you don't, you should.Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-18145160063343294242013-06-16T21:32:00.001-07:002013-06-16T21:32:19.596-07:00Review: One Man, One Woman: A Catholics Guide to Defending Marriage<br /> <a style='float: left; padding-right: 20px' href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2424487'><img alt='One Man, One Woman: A Catholics Guide to Defending Marriage' border='0' src='http://d.gr-assets.com/books/1348157824m/2424487.jpg'/></a><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2424487'>One Man, One Woman: A Catholics Guide to Defending Marriage</a> by <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/243424'>Dale O'Leary</a><br/><br /> My rating: <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/583130836'>4 of 5 stars</a><br /> <br/><br/><br /> This book is an excellent resource. Dale O'Leary provides a thoughtful survey of recent research on the development of same-sex attraction (SSA), how it manifests differently in men and women, and views on how people experiencing SSA cope with it, and how therapists and counselors approach treating people who come to them for help in dealing with it. It is absolutely fascinating.<br /><br />Following that, O'Leary discusses marriage and its role in society, and how redefining marriage to include homosexual relationships is likely to affect society. She devotes significant space to looking at how children and vulnerable women will be affected by widespread acceptance of this new definition of marriage.<br /><br />In one sense, it is unfortunate that the books is subtitled, "A *Catholic's* Guide to Defending Marriage". It is true she writes from a Catholic point of view, but she is neither strident, nor partisan, nor does she spend a great deal of time on Catholic theology per se. Any Christian, indeed, any person of good will, who would like a better understanding of the dynamics of the development of SSA would benefit from reading this book.<br /><br />One of the main points of this book is the need to draw a sharp distinction between same-sex attraction and the acting-out of that attraction by engaging in sexual acts. SSA is a psycho-sexual developmental disorder that has a large number of factors involved in its development. There is no sin involved with having SSA. The vast majority of people who are sexually attracted to people of the same sex have no choice in how they feel, and would gladly not feel that way if they could. In this way, SSA is very analogous to alcoholism or clinical depression. People who suffer from any of these disorders need our compassion, support and care.<br /><br />But that compassion and care can not include affirming people with SSA in the acting-out of those desires through sexual encounters. Those *actions* are harmful and degrading. They lead to a whole host of negative outcomes that are well-documented through research and which resonate with common sense. People suffering from SSA need to know love, acceptance, hope, and freedom. They should know our friendship and genuine care. And that care needs to be in accord with the truth, not with the politically-correct fads that would consign them to a life of self-destructive behavior.<br /><br />It's getting very late and I need to get up for work early tomorrow morning. Let me just finish by recommending this book to anyone interested in a deeper understanding of the current political and social trends and conflicts involving homosexuality. It will be especially helpful to those with friends, family members, co-workers, or loved ones who have same-sex attraction. <br /> <br/><br/><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/583130836'>View all my reviews</a><br /> Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-57043767789928575752013-02-01T20:48:00.001-08:002013-02-01T20:48:32.174-08:00Review: The Strong-Willed Child: Birth Through Adolescence<br /> <a style='float: left; padding-right: 20px' href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1112718'><img alt='The Strong-Willed Child: Birth Through Adolescence' border='0' src='http://d.gr-assets.com/books/1181098531m/1112718.jpg'/></a><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1112718'>The Strong-Willed Child: Birth Through Adolescence</a> by <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/1060839'>James C. Dobson</a><br/><br /> My rating: <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/523944911'>3 of 5 stars</a><br /> <br/><br/><br /> I pulled our old copy of this book off the shelves because I was looking for some guidance for dealing with our youngest, who is about a year and a half old. Although I think the general approach to discipline he advocates is quite sound, I was hoping to find more specifics for dealing with children at that young age. Sadly, kids that young are really not the focus of the book.<br /><br />It is interesting to see the range of reviews in this book. Many of the very negative ones seem to come from two sources:<br /><br />- People who are vehemently opposed to any form for corporal punishment; These will, of course, not approve of Dobson's belief that it is appropriate in some circumstances. Dobson repeatedly emphasizes the need for fairness, clear expectations, moderation, appropriateness, and parental self-control when giving such punishment. He also continually drives home the fact that all such punishment must be within the framework of total love where a child <em>always</em> feels worthwhile, cared for, and safe. But there are many who equate physical punishment and child abuse, and all rational thought stops once they hear about spanking.<br /><br />- People who disagree with Dr. Dobson because he is a Christian, or a conservative, or because he doesn't think homosexual behavior is healthy and must be promoted and affirmed; These people want to disagree with whatever else he says.<br /><br />It is interesting, really, because he spends some time discussing Dr. Spock in this book. Dr. Spock wrote a very influential book on child-rearing back in the '50's. At the time of Dobson's book (the '70's), Spock was criticized by many for being too permissive, and encouraging parents to not be stern enough with their children. Dobson notes that many of Spock's critics were really made at him (Dr. Spock) because he opposed the U.S.'s involvement in the Vietnam war and therefore they misrepresented what Dr. Spock wrote. Things have come full circle. Now Dr. Dobson is being accused of being too harsh, but you can often see their complaints are really not because of what he wrote in this book. It is obvious that some of his detractors are actually angry with him for opposing abortion, or divorce, or homosexual behavior, or some other pet cause they may have.<br /> <br/><br/><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/523944911'>View all my reviews</a><br /> Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-13641539665490817352011-09-30T14:07:00.001-07:002011-09-30T14:07:52.994-07:00Review: Breakfast with the Pope<br /> <a style='float: left; padding-right: 20px' href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9512173'><img alt='Breakfast with the Pope' border='0' src='http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41vOlcNnOrL._SX106_.jpg'/></a><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/9512173'>Breakfast with the Pope</a> by <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/4408934'>Susan Vigilante</a><br/><br /> My rating: <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/217311213'>3 of 5 stars</a><br /> <br/><br/><br /> I have mixed feelings about this book. On the one hand, I share the opinion of many of the other reviewers here that it is an encouraging, honest, and very interesting look at Susan Vigilante's life and faith. I found (most of) it to be uplifting and inspiring. It was especially gratifying to see someone struggle with the teaching of the Catholic Church and come down on the side of the following Christ! <br /><br />What disappointment I have with the book is two-fold. This first is really my fault. I read the book at the recommendation of a friend. She just told me she really liked it and thought I would too. But she didn't tell me anything else about the book, and I didn't ask. From the title I expected it to be a memoir about Pope John Paul II. Consequently, I thought there would be a lot more about him in the book. The book is really about Susan and her relationship with God, her husband, and her friends. It is very "girly". That doesn't make it bad by any means, but it is a little less my cup of tea.<br /><br />WARNING: SPOILER AHEAD!<br /><br />The second disappointment had to do with the rupturing of the friendships, the growth of which were so beautifully documented throughout the book. I had a hard time understanding why her friends felt so betrayed by the fact that she wrote this book. I just don't get it. Secondly, given how her friends felt, I don't understand how she went ahead and published the book anyway. To think that these once loving and happy friendships in the Lord have been dissolved made me very sad. I felt almost like I had contributed to it by reading the book!<br /><br />My puzzlement with both of these questions caused the end of the book to leave a bad taste in my mouth. <br /><br />Part of it is my difficulty really empathizing with passionate, artistic people. I just don't feel the drive, the *need* to write or sing or paint.<br /><br />Of course, for someone who doesn't feel the *need* to write, I ramble on quite a bit with these reviews, don't I?<br /><br /> <br/><br/><br /> <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/217311213'>View all my reviews</a><br /> Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-79896405918525471482011-03-18T15:55:00.000-07:002011-03-18T16:14:51.617-07:00All War, All The TimeGeorge Weigel presents <a href="http://www.firstthings.com/article/2011/03/all-war-all-the-time">a summary of the history of the struggle between Communist governments and the Catholic Church</a> over the last century.<br /><br />What I find amazing is the brutality and disregard for the truth exhibited by those that opposed the Church. It is frustrating, also, to see how many people where duped by them. Still, today, there is an amazing lack of appreciation for just how horribly evil those systems of government were. The Left in this country has not come to face the horrendous evil that it defended or excused and minimized.<br /><br />Those of us who love the Church should also not be naive about how ruthless and unscrupulous Christ's enemies can be. And we must be equally aware that the way to defend the Church is with <span style="font-style:italic;">good</span>. We must draw close to Christ, love Him with our whole hearts and our neighbors as ourselves. By the grace of the Holy Spirit, love will fuel holy lives while holy lives will strengthen love. Loving, even to the point of giving our lives, is how we will defend the Church and rescue those who are deceived.Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-23237393967937517792011-03-16T15:08:00.001-07:002011-03-18T15:55:48.880-07:00Review: Discerning the Will of God: An Ignatian Guide to Christian Decision Making<a style='float: left; padding-right: 20px' href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6755643-discerning-the-will-of-god'><img src='http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1266862188m/6755643.jpg' border='0' alt='Discerning the Will of God: An Ignatian Guide to Christian Decision Making'/></a><a href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6755643-discerning-the-will-of-god'>Discerning the Will of God: An Ignatian Guide to Christian Decision Making</a> by <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/3038921.Timothy_M_Gallagher_OMV'>Timothy M. Gallagher OMV</a><br/><br />My rating: <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/154818388'>4 of 5 stars</a><br/><br/><br />Very clear and encouraging, as have been all of Fr. Gallagher's books. This one focused on discerning God's will in "large" decisions such a vocation, move, job change, etc.<br /><br/><br /><br/><br /><br/><br/><br /><a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1158731-mark'>View all my reviews</a>Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-88588134847906590972010-11-18T14:10:00.001-08:002010-11-18T14:11:56.517-08:00Book Log: Rethinking Expertise<a style='float: left; padding-right: 20px' href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6600794-rethinking-expertise'><img src='http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1266780542m/6600794.jpg' border='0' alt='Rethinking Expertise'/></a><a href='http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/6600794-rethinking-expertise'>Rethinking Expertise</a> by <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/2980833.Harry_Collins'>Harry Collins</a><br/><br />My rating: <a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/128264204'>3 of 5 stars</a><br/><br/><br />Interesting exploration of the meaning of scientific expertise.<br /><br/><br /><br/>This was one of my first forays into the world of e-books. I bought the Nook version and read it mostly on my Android phone. I discovered that the software for the phone is really not up to what is necessary for this kind of book. The images were illegible, and it is very cumbersome (to the point of not being worth it) to look at footnotes. I'm afraid that my frustrations with the medium may have affected my outlook on the book, so I'm going to refrain from commenting much more on it.<br /><br/><br /><br/><br/><br /><a href='http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1158731-mark'>View all my reviews</a>Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-59083545665584955972010-10-08T20:04:00.000-07:002010-10-08T20:14:16.334-07:00Book Log: Philosophy of Mind: A Beginner's Guide by Edward Feser<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3400524.Philosophy_of_Mind_Revised_Edition" style="float: left; padding-right: 20px"><img alt="Philosophy of Mind, Revised Edition: A Beginner's Guide (Oneworld Beginners' Guides)" border="0" src="http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1267981416m/3400524.jpg" /></a><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3400524.Philosophy_of_Mind_Revised_Edition">Philosophy of Mind, Revised Edition: A Beginner's Guide</a> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/43145.Edward_Feser">Edward Feser</a><br/><br />My rating: <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/125380079">4 of 5 stars</a><br /><br /><br />I really enjoyed this book. Feser's writing is clear and accessible. He does a great job of giving an overview of Philosophy's approach to understanding the mind and especially how the mind relates to the brain.<br/><br/>This is an area I've thought about a lot, but I have done no serious reading on it before now. This book was exactly what I was looking for as an introduction to the topic. I could follow most of it (although a lot of detail went past me), and it really gave me a great deal to think about. I strongly recommend it.<br /><br/><br/><br /><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/list/1158731-mark">View all my reviews</a><br /><p><br />On a more personal note: It has been <i>wonderful</i> to do some serious reading that does not involve computers! It seems that it has been ages since I've read something like this that really forced me to do some thinking. I didn't think as deeply as I probably should have, but I did think more than I have been recently!Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-16974134900588650502010-03-08T12:13:00.000-08:002010-03-08T13:39:36.907-08:00Fwd: Very cute even guy's can read it!!I receive a copy of all the e-mail my children get in their accounts. (My kids are quite aware of this, and every once in a while need to remind their friends of that fact.) My girls (pre- and early-teens) receive these endlessly-forwarded messages containing words of (supposed) wisdom for how girls and boys should relate to each other. The messages are horrible amalgamations of sappy sentimentality, really bad advice on communication, inappropriate suggestions, and misleading descriptions of what boys and girls "really" mean when they say something. The whole package is expressed with poor grammar and bad spelling, and often ends with a threat of endless heartache if it is not immediately forwarded to all of the reader's friends.<br /><br />Seeing how popular these message appear to be, I can see both why women's magazines are so popular and why so many people seem to have a hard time forming stable, loving relationships. It is enough to make a father sigh.<br /><br />Well, last night when another one of these came through the inbox (its subject is the title of this post), something in me snapped and I produced the following. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed mocking it.<br /><br />The normal text is the original message. My additions are in <i>italics,</i> with the original text in strike-through where I thought appropriate. <br /><br /><span style=" ;font-family:arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:13.3333px;"><div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;">When a Girl is quiet ... <strike>millions of things are running in her mind. </strike></span></span></div></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>she is wondering what's for lunch.</i><div><br /><br />When a Girl is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.</div></span></span></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>Those are your only two choices: deep thought or arguing. Deal with it.<br /></i><div><br />When a Girl looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering<strike> how long you will be around.</strike></div></span></span></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>if she should tell you about the piece of spinach stuck between your teeth.</i><div><br /><br />When a Girl answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine.</div></span></span></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>When a Girl answers "I'm not fine," after a few seconds .. she is not at all fine.</i></span></span></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>Face it: She's <u>not </u>fine! And it's <u>your fault!</u></i></span></span></div><div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><br />When a Girl stares at you ... she is wondering <strike>why you are lying.</strike></span></span></div></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>why she never noticed that long hair growing out of your nose. And she's still worried about the spinach between your teeth.<br /></i><div><br />When a Girl lays on your chest ... <strike>she is wishing for you to be hers forever.</strike></div></span></span></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>she is really exhausted. Go get her a pillow! Then take a hint and leave!</i><div><br /><br />When a Girl wants to see you everyday... she<strike> wants to be pampered.</strike><br /></div><i>has a lot of free time.</i><div><br /><br />When a Girl says ' I love you ' ... she means it.</div></span></span></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>even though according to the rest of this e-mail she doesn't plainly tell you anything else she means.</i><div><br /><br />When a Girl says ' I miss you ' ... no one in this world can miss you more than that.</div></span></span></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>Except maybe your Dog. Or another Girl.</i><div><br /><br />Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person....<br /></div><i>preferably someone who can spell the word "you".<br /></i><div><br />Find a Guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot.</div></span></span></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>Unless you live in Arizona and you really are hot because the temperature is over 110 degrees. Then, if he calls you beautiful when you're all gross and sweaty, he's probably a liar.</i><div><br /><br />Who calls you back when you hang up on him.<br /></div><i>Because it would be completely unreasonable for him to expect someone who cares for him to be polite on the phone, right?<br /></i><div><i></i><br />Wait for the guy who ... kisses your forehead.<br /></div><i>Then, help him buy some eyeglasses so he doesn't miss next time.<br /></i><div><br /><br />Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.<br /></div><i>That will show he's really sensitive to your feelings. You really want the world to see you in your sweats, right?<br /></i><div><br />Who holds your hand in front of his friends.<br /></div><i>Because he's afraid you'll hold hands with one of his friends?</i><div><br /><br />Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.<br /></div><i>It is good to be appreciated.<br /></i><div><br />Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!! '</div></span></span></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>"That's the girl that hung up on me! (And she keeps staring at my teeth!)<br /></i><div><br />If you open this you have to repost it, guy or girl, or you will have bad luck for the rest of your life!!!!!<br /></div><i>But no pressure.<br /></i><div><br />If I don't get this back I guess your not my friend. If you have a lot of love for someone. copy and send this to your whole list. In 5 minutes your true love will call or message you.<br /></div><i>How could it not work?<br /></i><br />Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they like you. <i>(Too bad, because before midnight, your true love thought they loved you. And what's with "they"? Does he have a split personality? Do you have multiple true loves? Shouldn't you sort this out before you're laying your head on his [excuse me, I mean "their"] chest [chests?]) </i>Something good will happen to you at approx. 1:42pm <i>(approximately!) </i>tomorr<wbr>ow, it could be anywhere.<br /><br />So get ready for the biggest shock of your life. If you break this chain, you will be cursed with relationship problems for the most important time of your life. <i>(Again, no pressure.) </i>send this to 15 people in 15 minutes to carry on the chain...and spare yourself the emotional stress..</span></span></div><div class="gmail_quote" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; "><span style="font-family:arial;color:black;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><i>No! I waited more than 15 minutes!</i></span></span></div></span>Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-2859034858437585772009-12-29T11:49:00.000-08:002009-12-29T11:49:16.098-08:00Iraq’s Holy Innocents - John F. Cullinan - The Corner on National Review Online<a href="http://corner.nationalreview.com/post/?q=OTRjZTRkZmVhMGVhNTliMjAwNTVhYWI1MzMzNDVhZDc=">Iraq’s Holy Innocents - John F. Cullinan - The Corner on National Review Online</a>Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-75356334807869307022009-05-08T16:20:00.000-07:002009-05-08T16:23:39.407-07:00Now what tables have columns with that name?This is a <a href="http://www.myitforum.com/articles/18/view.asp?id=11055">great script by Don Hite </a>that will list the tables in your DB that have a particular name. (Not that <span style="font-style: italic;">I</span> have a need to do that.)Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3398953.post-73849679487841907822009-03-18T07:35:00.000-07:002009-03-18T07:36:56.482-07:00Morally Unserious In the ExtremeAn <a href="http://www.realclearpolitics.com/articles/2009/03/using_embryoswithout_limit.html">insightful article</a>.Markhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08999599420983854165noreply@blogger.com0